What is a death doula?

A death doula is a non-medical companion who provides emotional, spiritual, and practical support for people at the end of life and their loved ones. My role is to walk alongside you, offering comfort, guidance, and a safe space for conversations that are often difficult to have.

How is a death doula different from hospice or palliative care?

Hospice and palliative care are medical services focused on managing pain and symptoms. A death doula does not replace medical providers—we complement their care. I focus on emotional well-being, legacy work, planning, presence, and support for both the dying person and their family.

Do you replace medical providers or work alongside them?

I do not provide medical care. Instead, I work as an additional compliment to doctors, nurses, and hospice staff to help ensure a more holistic and supported experience.

At what stage should someone reach out to a death doula?

Anytime. Some people invite me in when they receive a serious diagnosis, others only in the final days or weeks. Families also reach out after a loved one has died for support with grief or rituals. There is no “too early” or “too late.”

What services do you provide?

I offer a range of services including emotional support, life review and legacy projects, planning and conducting living funerals, guidance with advance care planning, and support for family members before and after death. Together, we’ll tailor the experience to your needs.

Do you only support the dying person, or also their loved ones?

Both. I support individuals at the end of life, as well as their families, caregivers, and friends. Often, loved ones need just as much care, reassurance, and space to process.

Can you help with creating advance directives, legacy projects, or rituals?

Yes. I can guide conversations about medical wishes and end-of-life planning, help with legacy projects such as letters, recordings, or memory books, and create meaningful rituals that honor your values and traditions.

Do you offer in-person and/or virtual support?

Yes. I primarily work in person within my local area, but I also offer virtual sessions for those at a distance or who prefer online support.

How much do your services cost?

My fees vary depending on the type of support and length of engagement. I offer hourly rates and customized packages so that services can be tailored to your needs. We can discuss options openly before we begin.

Do you offer packages or hourly support?

Yes. Some families prefer a single session for guidance, while others choose a package that includes ongoing visits and support. I will help you choose what feels right.

Are your services covered by insurance?

At this time, death doula services are not covered by insurance. Many families see it as an investment in compassionate, personalized care.

What areas do you serve?

I serve families and individuals in Eastern Wisconsin for in-person support, and I am available virtually for those outside the area.

Do you work with specific faiths or belief systems?

While I do specialize in alternative religions, I honor all spiritual paths, cultural traditions, and belief systems. My role is not to impose, but to support you in the practices and values that are meaningful to you.

Can you support someone who is not religious or spiritual?

Absolutely. Many people prefer a secular approach. I offer support that is centered on the person, their values, and their life story—without any required spiritual or religious framing.

How do you help families navigate grief?

I offer a compassionate presence, resources for coping, and guidance for creating meaningful rituals and memorials. While I am not a therapist, I provide support and can connect you with grief counselors or support groups if needed.

How do I know if working with a death doula is right for me or my loved one?

If you are seeking extra support—emotional, spiritual, or practical—at the end of life, a death doula may be the right choice. We provide time, presence, and compassion that can ease the journey for everyone involved.

What does the first meeting look like?

Our first conversation is a gentle, pressure-free meeting where we talk about your needs, questions, and hopes. It’s a chance for you to learn about me and decide if this type of support feels right for you.

How do I start the process of working with you?

You can reach out by phone, email, or use our contact page to schedule your free initial consultation. From there, we’ll discuss your needs and create a plan together.